Most times a lot of people, regardless of gender cannot distinguish between love making and having s3x.
S3x is an instinctive and bio-mechanical act and everyone can do it.
On the other hand, making love is considered to be a s3nsual, slow, and not goal-oriented, the act gives people the opportunity to experience the metaphysical being of oneness and it is considered to be an art in itself.
Hence, a fulfilling s3x life and a successful romantic relationship should contain little of both.
I know it seems like I'm preaching but oh well...
Although the terms “having s3x” and “making love” are used interchangeably by many and though making love often includes s3xual intercourse, they do not necessarily indicate the same activity.
Remember love making entails a lot of emotional connection.
1. The Motivation Is Different
When you're having s3x, your primary motivation may be to get off and have an orgasm.
2. The Communication Is Different
When you're having s3x, you might choose to engage in some dïrty talk.
Even if you aren't a fan of s3xy lingo, the communication during s3x can pertain to who is about to have an orgásm, when, and how hard.
When you're making love, though, this can change.
3. The Vulnerability Is Different
When having s3x, even if you’re sometimes open to trying new things, you may not normally consider more than finishing and feeling good.
4. The Presence Is Different
Although I may not care to admit it, sometimes when I’m having s3x, my mind wanders.
Whether I’ve fantasized about Ryan Gosling during mediocre s3x or just thought about how to politely get dressed and leave during really bad s3x, there are times when I just haven’t been all in.
