Thank you so much for your advice but we will appreciate if you can learn to keep your opinion to yourself, especially when they don't align with God's word. If your own blessing comes with short term joy and long term sorrow then congratulations to you, we are happy for the faith you have chosen to hold on to in spite of the countless daily bread that God has promised to release unto you.
I know misery loves company, but be careful when you're going around speaking mess over other people's marriage because you are unhappy in yours.
I have had to delete and block alot of people from my circle because of these lies, so much negativity.
You'll hear negative comments like "enjoy it while it last".
And immediately I tell them to keep themselves and their negativity away from my family.
We become what we attract.
We will never be able to fight off or repel that which we try to tolerate.
Yes marriage is not rosey, we know. Yes, as sure as they'll be sunsine they'll also be rain. But please let us enjoy our happiness, and when the unhappy times come let us still enjoy fighting for it by choosing to love each other daily.
No marriage is the same. Your marriage is not the Bible, therefore it does not speak for every other marriage. Learn to leave new or happily married couples alone. Give your Godly advice and keep your negativity to yourself.
Dear newly weds,
Cc: Happily married couples,
Don't allow anyone speak negative about your marriage, old or new. Stop that enemy immediately and declare that your marriage will always be filled with love and happiness.
Also uderstand that we are not in for the storybook Cinderella all-perfect marriage, every marriage no matter how happy has its own challenges, but let no one tell you that your happiness wont last long. Keep praying for grace to love each other through the storms when they come, some storms are even meant to strengthen our marriage and fireproof our love.
Keep God at the center of your marriage and keep working on each other and you'll be absolutely fine.
As for the Cinthos, we are going great over here, and even when we are not doing great we are greatly working on making our marriage greater than it was yesterday.
