DISAPPOINTMENT:She did it because he said he "loved" her. He pushed her into it because he wanted to prove he was a real man. Her friends said it was all right as long as she really loved him. His friends told him everybody else had and what was he waiting for?And they were utterly wrong. Sex is never casual. Sex is God's gift, and nothing God ever gives is casual. Because sex itself is so deep, sexual hurt is never shallow. What you do and what you learn in sex builds a pattern, burns a memory that will last you for life. Scars from sexual sin never go away. Each time you link your body and your soul to someone else, the re- runs start of everything you have done before with anyone else. That is why "try before you buy" is such a stupid idea when it comes to sex.In the trying is the buying.Every hurt, every disappointment, every rejection carries over to the next time.You can't avoid the re-runs.
